I’ve got to go on a rant here. Let me just say as a blanket statement, chicks don’t know how to handle relationships. By relationships I mean, non-sexual, strictly friend relationships. In my professional and personal life, I am around a lot of different women. Recently, I heard, or rather was included in the conversation about how so and so did this and I took exception to it, blah, blah, blah. You know what, if you had a problem with what so and so did, go to so and so about. Especially if you think of that person as a friend. Rather than handling it through second hand sources, just say it. Don’t wring your hands over what to do and whether or not someone will get upset. Guess what, that someone is probably already upset, so put it out there and clear the air or end it. That’s a difference between guys and chicks. For instance, if one of my boys is having a night of cards, Ultimate Fighting and nudie bars and I didn’t hear about it, I’m not going to be upset or bat an eye. A chick would be all bent and read way too much into it. Furthermore, a guy would say what’s up. Example, a while back, I sensed some tension between a buddy of mine, and finally I was talking to him on the phone and just said “dude, I haven’t heard from you in a while. Are we cool.” And he understood. Get it out there or get over it. If you’re not going to confront it or try to solve it, move on and don’t bitch about it. The simple life, It’s Good to be a Man.